This might work for Ron and me- I've held off giving an opinion because our schedule is so tenuous, but my feeling is that later in July is better than earlier. Once we put my house on the market, if it doesn't sell in 2 months Cendant (yes, the Evil Empire!) buys it, so we have some control over when we move by picking the date we market the house. The wedding date is June 6 so we'll need some breathing time after that.

We may have my son with me but he should find plenty to like in San Francisco.

Aer John- how about a winery tour instead? You're too young to sample it so we'll make you the Designated Driver.